The second pillar is Structure, and first part of that is a Model, Map or System...
The other main reason I failed so miserably with women for so long, was that I was using the wrong model.
I spent years using a model that told me the only way to meet attractive women was to go into nightclubs, say a bunch of made-up lines and stories, try to impress women, and never be honest that I found them attractive.
This cost me years of wasted time, beating myself up, and thousands of unnecessary rejections...
Which only made me reinforce my negative Self-Image that I was unattractive!
Once I developed a new model: a model that allowed me to be honest, express myself, and be indifferent to how women reacted to me, I was able to achieve results with women that were beyond my wildest dreams.
All because the new model (now called my 'Direct Daygame System') reflected reality better than the previous one... it was a better map of the world.
Most people on Earth will live their whole lives using the 'default map'... whatever they're pre-programmed with, fed by society or the media.
For example, the government guidelines on nutrition tell you to eat 50% of your calories from bread, pasta, potatoes and other starchy carbs. Good luck building a muscular, toned physique doing that!
The 'default map' of financial success is to get a degree, work hard 40 hours a week for 40 years at the same job, and retire at 65 on 40% of what you used to make every year. Again, good luck becoming financially free with that!
The fact is: you need to ditch the 'default' model or map of reality you're given, and then find one that more accurately reflects reality AND allows you to create the freedom you want across all aspects of your life.
Which brings us finally to number three...